12 good habits of successful people|12 Rules For Life

Habits of Successful People In English – Friends, today we will see 12 rules to live in life which Jordan Peterson has told in his Best Selling Books – 12 Rules For Life. Jordan is a very famous personality and Professor of Phycologist at the University of Toronto.e

1. Always stand up straight.

The first rule says to always stand up straight and put your shoulders back like a winner. If we stand with a dull poster, then the people of the world see us as a loser and then people's reaction and their words start taking it as a feed back.

Due to which we start thinking of ourselves as a loser and then again to be consistent with that self image, we present ourselves as a loser in front of others and this loop continues. That's why authors say that if we present our body straight and like a winner to people, then they will treat us differently, due to which our self image will also be that of a winner.

2. Take care of yourself too.

This rule says that we should take care of ourselves as much as we would take care of a child. If any of our dog or any stomach gets ill and a doctor recommends medicine to it, then Majority Of us will buy that medicine at the same time without delay and give it to that stomach. But research has proved that 33% of the people do not use the medicine when a doctor himself recommends it, it means that we care more for others than we do for ourselves.

3. Make friendship with good people.

This rule says that befriend those people who help you in bad times. It has been seen more in companies that an Under Archiver is put in a high performing team thinking that the performing speed of that Under Archiver will improve like other people in the team.

But studies have repeatedly proved that in most cases, the bad habits of the under archiver decline the team and not improve, so the author says that we have to be very choosy to make our new friends , it does not mean that We have become mean because helping happens from both sides in friendship. When we are feeling demotivated, then our friends will motivate us and when those people are in energy state, then it is our duty to remind them that they have a lot of capability and they can overcome any difficult state. .

4. Don't compare yourself with anyone.

This rule says that if we want to progress in life, then compare your today's performance with your tomorrow's performance and not with someone else's performance. Author says that there are 7 billion people on the earth and many people will be better than you in your own field and if we compare ourselves with others then we will have reason to be sad all the time .

For example, if you compare yourself with your friends and see that your friends are much better than you financially, then you can consider yourself a complete failure. But if you look at yourself that you have done a lot for your family this year in comparison to your last year, then this thing can give us very positive energy.

5. To give good education to the children.

This rule says that it is the responsibility of the parents to make a child a responsible citizen. Studies have proved that many children are aggressive and angry since childhood, that's why parents should try themselves to make such children a good citizen and not leave them to the society. Efforts should be made clear to the child that what punishment will he get for doing wrong and the punishment should be according to the crime. Together, parents should clearly tell their child the rules of their house and keep the quantity of rules low so that the child does not get confused.

6. Stop advising people.

Man Kohli didn't hit this shot properly, AR Rahman missed the beat, there are many people who like to give free advice to people even though they themselves don't know anything about that field. And when someone asks him himself why you have not achieved anything in your life, then his answer is always the same.

Friend , there are so many problems in the world , it is easy for others to do it themselves, then they come to know and exactly this rule wants to say that we should not give free advice to others until we bring our life in order. Earthquake may have occurred in your area, but if you already knew that earthquake may occur in this area and still did not do anything, then it is your fault and not God's.

7. Set rules in your life.

You must have heard this monkey's story, once a biscuit was kept in a box to catch the monkey, there was a hole in this box, through which the monkey could put his empty hand inside, but could not take out the closed fist by holding the biscuit and so on. It happened when the monkey caught that biscuit, due to the closed fist, he was not able to take out his hand, but because of his greed, he did not leave that biscuit and finally got caught in the hunter's trap.

Moral of the story is that we also have to set rules in our life to live a life of dignity and not sacrifice those rules for any immediate happiness.

8. Don't lie to yourself.

This rule says that don't lie especially to yourself For example if you have thought that you will get married in foreign you will throw a wonderful party you will invite all your friends this is a good goal but it is possible that we ourselves They are fooling because it is possible that till now we have not grown financially so much that we can afford all this.

There are many such things where we are fooling ourselves despite knowing the reality. This does not mean that we should not have big goals, but it means that we should have realistic and flexible goals. As we grow in life, our view of the world will change and maybe our goals will also change, so we should not lie to ourselves.

9. Listen and learn from others.

This rule says that when we talk to someone, our main motive should be that we should learn something from them that we did not know before. The main goal of any conversation is that two people make such an idea with their individual ideas, which is better than both of those ideas, but in today's time , people prefer to tell their words and their sorrows to others. As Compare To listen to other's words, many times we may be sad to listen to other's ideas because our ideas on which we were believing since childhood may turn out to be wrong but this is a price that we have to pay if we Have to improve and grow.

10. Learn more than you need. 

Life is very complex and to understand it, Majority Of Humans learn only that part which is important for their life. Now Obesely we cannot learn all the concepts of the world but the author says that we should learn more than our need of things and use clear language for that.

For Example – If we are sick, then we have to give very clear data to the doctor that what happened to us whether we had stomach ache earlier or we had fever or stomach ache happened after we ate something and what was that. What we ate and stomach ache started. Doctors are unable to understand most of the diseases because the patients do not provide them with clear data. That's why the author says that we should use very precise language in these important causes.

11. Prepare for risk.

Basically author wants to say in this rule that preparing your loved once for risk is a much better option as compare to not letting them do that risky work because there are many things in life which are risky so we should take care of our life. I want to give a personal example.

If you remember in 2014 in Himachal Pradesh, Mandi district, 24 engineering students drowned in the water because the terrest gate of the Hydro Plant was opened and the students did not know that now after this incident Maximum Parents told their children that they should never go near water and even promises were taken from them that they would never do so.

But a person who was earlier in the Indian Navy taught his boy summing first and one day pushed him by taking him near the river just to see how he reacts in this situation and as accepted he swam comfortably. Kar came ashore.

It was a very calculative risk that the man was with his boy and would have saved him if he had panicked. Now the point is that every parent loves their child but what is the better option is to keep your loved once away from the risk that at some point of time risk will come in their life or to prepare them for the risk.

12. Celebrate every little happiness.

The author says that life is hard and we can get unhappiness in life even if we don't want to, so it is very important that we celebrate every small happiness in life with open heart. The author has a daughter who had Arthritis at the age of 6, she used to have pain many times, for which she was given injections and even many times she had Surgeries, if any of us had such a daughter, we would have felt how bad our life Is.

But the author used to celebrate every little happiness with his daughter. And after a few years, he got some such Physicochemist, which the author's daughter got very less and the author celebrated it like happiness, now problems are bound to come in life, just take life as an adventure and go on the way. Keep celebrating every little happiness.

So friends, let us see the 12 rules in which the first rule says.

1. Keep your Body Posture straight so that it increases our confidence.

2. Along with taking care of others, we should also take care of ourselves.

3. This rule says that friends should be made only by those who support you in bad times and you also help your friends in their difficult times.

4. Always compare your performance with the previous day's performance because this is the golden rule of proper risk and growth.

5. It is your responsibility to improve your children or loved ones, not anyone else's.

6. Improve yourself first, improve the world later.

7. Live a meaningful life to maintain your dignity and don't take every action just for your happiness.

8.Try not to lie to anyone, especially to yourself.

9. When listening to others, think that he knows something that we do not know so that we can grow and improve.

10. Apart from our field, we should have some knowledge about other fields as well and we should use precise words to express ourselves.

11. Rule says that we should prepare our loved ones for risk, not take them away from risk because risk is bound to come in their life.

12. In this rule, we had seen that we should celebrate even small happiness.

Friends, many more interesting tips have been given in this book, if you also want to read this whole book, then you can buy this book.

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